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LIfe's Too Short to Be Mean - March 23, 2014
by Pamela Barz on March 26th, 2014

" If generosity is rooted in love and a sense of abundance, meanness is rooted in fear and a sense of poverty.  We are mean when we fear there isn’t enough to go around – enough care, enough regard, enough resources, enough love."  (To read the full sermon click here


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